Sabtu, 14 Desember 2002

REAKSI TAK TERDUGA SETELAH BERCINTA


Reaksi setelah melakukan aktivitas bercinta dengan pasangan, bisa bermacam-macam. Bukan hanya langsung tidur hingga pagi hari.
Mungkin Anda selama ini memiliki reaksi yang tak terduga setelah bercinta. Ketahui hal apa saja yang bisa terjadi setelah bercinta yang mungkin tak Anda duga.

Menangis
Anda bisa saja menangis setelah bercinta padahal tidak sedang marah dengan pasangan dan hubungan pun sedang tidak dalam masalah. Menurut Isadora Alman, seorang terapis seks, menangis setelah bercinta adalah hal yang tidak perlu dikhawattirkan. Hal tersebut lebih karena luapan emosi kebahagiaan.

Berdarah
Pendarahan setelah bercinta adalah hal serius dan Anda harus segera memeriksakan diri ke dokter meskipun tidak disertai rasa sakit. Biasanya hal itu diketahui setelah Anda bercinta lalu buang air kecil dan terlihat ada pendarahan. Menurut Lissa Rankin, ginekolog dan penulis di OwningPink.com, pendarahan pada vagina selain saat menstruasi atau saat hubungan seksual pertama kali adalah abnormal dan harus segera diperiksakan ke dokter. Hal itu bisa menjadi pertanda tumbuhnya sel pra kanker pada leher rahim, kanker, penyakit menular seksual atau infeksi jamur dan masih banyak lagi. Jangan sepelekan pendarahan setelah bercinta apalagi jika terjadi lebih dari dua kali.

Ingin sendiri
Setelah bercinta mungkin saja muncul keinginan untuk sendiri dan bukan bermesraan dengan pasangan. Hal tersebut bisa muncul karena keadaan psikologis dan merupakan hal wajar. Bisa jadi karena Anda merasa butuh waktu untuk diri sendiri. Akan sangat baik jika Anda membicarakan dengan pasangan dan memberikannya pengertian agar tidak terjadi konflik.

Sakit kepala
Sakit kepala setelah bercinta adalah keluhan yang sering terjadi. Hal ini terjadi pada banyak wanita dan selalu muncul setelah bercinta. "Hal tersebut dalam dunia kedokteran disebut coital cephalgia atau sakit kepala karena orgasme. Hal itu karena bercinta dan orgasme memicu perubahan fisiologis yang cepat yaitu tekanan darah menjadi lebih tinggi dan memicu sakit kepala termasuk migrain,” kata Rankin.

Alergi
Beberapa wanita ada yang mengalami gejala alergi setelah bercinta, seperti gatal, bengkak dan sesak nafas. Hal tersebut bisa terjadi karena alergi terhadap sperma pasangan dan disebut seminal plasma hypersensitivity. Kondisi ini bisa dihindari dengan menggunakan kondom atau melakukan terapi rutin. Periksakan ke dokter jika hal tersebut terjadi lebih dari satu kali.

Sabtu, 09 November 2002

Solutions for People with a boyfriend or a husband's impotence

In One Day ....
You've stood in front of boyfriend or husband with a thin nightgown stimulating. You leaned against him with a spoiled, kissed her boyfriend or husband with overwhelming passion and motioned to a boyfriend or husband to move to the bedroom.
Boyfriend or pulse quickened husband, boyfriend or husband's breathing heavily, everything goes smoothly. But, at the decisive moment, sudden rocket launchers boyfriend or husband turned into like a sausage that lack content.
Damn ... boyfriend or husband had heard that it happened to any man once or twice, then the boyfriend or husband does not make an attempt. However, you still are not helpless, even though you've tried hard rekindle desire boyfriend or husband. Getting an erection is more difficult than lifting a 500 kg to the piano room on the third floor.


Indeed much can be done by a specialist urology and sex therapy for you even if you suffer from impotence are ongoing problems. If your impotence problems caused by psychological factors such as stress, fatigue, communication failure to the couple and others then counseling or consultation with a sex therapist might be enough.
But if your problems concerning the physical condition, there are several therapies that you can choose, including medications and penile implants.
1. Lohimbin hydrochloride (Yocon)
Prescription drugs made from the bark of African yohimbe tree, proven to cure impotence in one of three patients. However, the time required to enjoy the results can be up to eight weeks, and their side effects include nausea, dizziness, and irritability.
2. Injections
Your doctor may recommend that you inject yourself such drugs papaverin and prostaglandin (Prostin VR) directly into your penis. This injection causes the blood vessels in the penis widen and you will have an erection that can last up to three hours, even though you have ejaculated.
Of course, sticking needles into your favorite body part is for some pretty horrible. However, the pain was still less than the pain of a bee stung. The downside, if the erection lasts thanks to the injection of more than four hours, your penis can be damaged permanently. This was not too concerned about, because only one percent of users of injection therapy is to experience it.
However, if you still get an erection after three hours, take a decongestant tablets containing 30 milligrams of pseudoefedrin (eg medication for severe flu). These drugs will reduce the blood vessels and restore your penis, he said. Crenshaw. If your erection is not lost after one hour after taking medication, consult your doctor or go to the emergency care unit at the hospital immediately.
3. Vacuum Equipment
You can also try using a vacuum to fit your penis. A pump will remove the air from hampanya tube made of plastic. That results in a negative pressure in the room, which took the blood into the penis and produces an erection. Most men who use this tool then put a rubber band at the base of the penis to keep the blood does not get out of there.
"If you doubt that you will be able to get an erection, you can use this tool, pump, and get an erection only a minute later," said Dr. Crenshaw. "Your anxiety disappear and you can save both time and money for therapy."
However, the bracelet should be removed after 20 to 30 minutes so that your penis does not have bruises.
4. Implantation
There is also a tool that can be inserted into your penis through surgery to create an erection. However, up to 50 percent of this kind of tool will lose its ability after five years, and when that happens, you will need surgery again